Babies Enjoy Being with Mom During Exercise.

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Hav­ing baby present while you are work­ing out is a lot of fun. Like most of new mom’s lives, the abil­ity to be together with baby and be pro­duc­tive at the same time is a fit­ness chal­lenge. A cer­ti­fied post­na­tal fit­ness instruc­tor can guide new moms in fig­ur­ing out how to do this. Being in a group also enables new moms to learn from each other.

Strollers are a per­fect aid to start your engine for aer­o­bic fit­ness. Mat work with baby is a great fol­low up. Multi-tasking can mean strength­en­ing mom’s shoul­der mus­cles while babies learn to social­ize. There are many ways to be fit and an inter­ac­tive mom at the same time!

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Pregnancy Pathway, Birth

There is no birth of con­scious­ness with­out pain.

Birth is a process with two major components

Birth is a life process with two major components

Okay, be here now:  This is about a really major experience…bringing human con­scious­ness into the world…opening a door to a room of love in your heart that you can only know by giv­ing birth to this person…changing your iden­tity forever.

Get­ting your mind around the image: If you have not taken the time yet to get your mind around this, take a moment. Breathe in deeply. Gen­tly blow the air out. Repeat. Repeat. Let go of any resis­tance. Slow your heart. Slow your mind. Con­sider:  Your body has the power to cre­ate a per­son. Your body has the power to expel this per­son when the rent is up.

Your brain, glands and organs are hav­ing a con­ver­sa­tion with the baby’s brains, glands and organs. At some point, this dis­cus­sion reaches a place where it is time to end this arrange­ment of two peo­ple shar­ing one body. It is true that occa­sion­ally the pas­sen­ger doesn’t want to leave, but that is rare. And, we have a rem­edy for that. Let’s just focus now on the what hap­pens when it’s time to go.

Labor starts how? Well, it depends. Some­times con­trac­tions start in fits and spurts and take a while to get orga­nized. Some­times they start strongly from the get go, and for oth­ers the process of get­ting rolling can take a few days. Some­times it starts early, and some­times has to be helped to start. Once in a while, the water breaks and labor starts…or not. So, the first les­son of hav­ing a child come to live with you is that you need to be flex­i­ble in your expectations.

In the next two posts, we’ll cover Labor and then the Birth Mode. Each of these processes is unique. They involve dif­fer­ent energy sys­tems. They require dif­fer­ent mind-sets from the mother and her sup­port team. The out­comes are dif­fer­ent. Going through the cen­ter of these processes helps you deal with them, helps you recover from their stren­u­ous nature and helps you move on to being a parent.

Remem­ber: Breathe in deeply. Gen­tly blow the air out. Repeat. Repeat. Let go of any resis­tance. Slow your heart. Slow your mind. Con­sider:  Your body has the power to cre­ate a per­son. Your body has the power to expel this per­son when the rent is up.

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Pregnancy Pathway, Preconditions — Environment

Please refer to Feb­ru­ary 5 entry for entire graphic. Today: Envi­ron­men­tal Pre­con­di­tions to Preg­nancy.
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Our envi­ron­ment is with us all the time. Even if we think we are pre­vent­ing or con­trol­ling envi­ron­men­tal fac­tors that impinge on our bod­ies and minds, they are lurk­ing here, there, every­where, and they are myr­iad. Our envi­ron­men­tal influ­ences are every­thing from the air we breathe to the per­sons who raise or teach us, from the food avail­able to our hous­ing, from our job stresses to cul­tural forces or even the weather in our part of the world. These things help shape who we are phys­i­cally and men­tally, over the long term and from moment to moment.

08-4Are you pre­pared to become a par­ent? One way to tell is to look at your environment…is it healthy? Are you liv­ing in a sit­u­a­tion that you can count on? What about clean air, safe paint or safe food? What about water? What about peo­ple around you? Are they sup­port­ive? Does your envi­ron­ment help you stay healthy?

What about your body? Fac­tors in the envi­ron­ment that affect fer­til­ity (or lack of it) may deter­mine if  you can even become preg­nant, or when you can become preg­nant. Think about this:  Women who work together often cycle together. What if you work alone, say at home…does this affect your ovu­la­tion? One fac­tor iden­ti­fied in the low­er­ing age of men­stru­a­tion in girls is the increas­ing num­ber of hor­mones in var­i­ous meats. Another fac­tor is the pres­ence of non-biologically related older males in the house­hold. If these things are known, imag­ine what is not known about sit­u­a­tions, chem­i­cals or peo­ple in our envi­ron­ment that affect our reproduction!

There is not an absolute sep­a­ra­tion of genet­ics, envi­ron­ment and behav­ior. If we are genet­i­cally pre­dis­posed to cer­tain dis­or­ders, for exam­ple, we may or may not develop them, depend­ing on envi­ron­ment. Some per­sons are inclined toward autoim­mune dis­or­ders, but they may do well or poorly depend­ing on the air pol­lu­tion where they live. Some indi­vid­u­als may develop immune dis­or­ders. And, this sit­u­a­tion may adversely impact inflam­ma­tory responses dur­ing implantation.

Peo­ple who strive to take care of them­selves even if they live in hor­ri­ble con­di­tions can use their behav­ior to improve their chances for suc­cess in every­thing from a healthy preg­nancy to a mean­ing­ful exis­tence. Even if genet­ics and the envi­ron­ment are against the process, behav­ior can some­times over­come the odds. Granted, it’s not likely you can pro­duce 6’5″ off­spring (see last post on genet­ics!) if the egg per­son is 5’2″ and the sperm per­son is 5’7″, but much is pos­si­ble beyond that.

So, what do you do about your envi­ron­ment if you are think­ing about becom­ing preg­nant? Take stock. Ask your­self what, if any­thing, might have to change. Ask what you can or can’t accept for your off­spring, if you know there are envi­ron­men­tal fac­tors that aren’t per­fect. Fetuses are amaz­ing crea­tures; the pla­cen­tas that sup­ply and defend them are ruth­less and will pro­tect a fetus at all costs. But, you can give your body and poten­tial baby a good chance to do well by pro­vid­ing a six month span of a healthy envi­ron­ment lead­ing up to con­cep­tion. And, healthy for mind as well as body.

When your baby comes into the world, a door opens in your heart to a room you didn’t even know was there. In that room is a cer­tain kind of love and car­ing that can­not be described. It is love for this being who is and isn’t you. As a mother, you have been her/his envi­ron­ment for nine months or how­ever long you have shared. The womb is a small, pro­tected, orga­nized envi­ron­ment, one that reflects your larger envi­ron­ment. So, take stock now, ahead of time.

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